December 21st, 2011 Posted in NCAA basketball betting | No Comments »
My boyfriend is friends with a girl that I absolutely hate. But him and her used to be like dating, and I saw messages from her to him that were really dirty from this summer that he had saved on his phone.
He knows that I hate her, and he constantly makes jokes saying "Im gonna go hang out with her instead of you on Friday" and "I bet she would wanna do this with me cuz you dont wanna" And it pisses me off SO much. I tell him all the time that I hate her and I hate when he makes jokes about her. Tonight was a basketball game and she was there with her friends. The whole way to the game he was like "— is going to be there. Are you exctied?? Im excited. I cant wait to see her!" he was saying it jokingly but I still hate it! I could only stay for 20 minutes for pep band, and I was afraid he was going to go sit by her, so I told one of my friends to keep an eye on him for me to make sure he doesn’t sit by her and stuff, cuz he said he wasnt going to sit by her or even talk to her. And sure enough, he sat by her and her friends. Then when I asked him about it, he started getting mad because I was mad that he sat by her. But he told me he wasnt going to! And it makes me even more mad that he did it after I left!
Can I be mad about this or am i Overreacting?
you have every right to be mad. he’s bogus for intentionally messing with you like that then blaming you for confronting him about it. i don’t think you’re overreacting at all, just keeping an eye on your man. lol
Dump him.
He is making you jealous and you are behaving in a very unflattering way because of it. That’s NOT what a boyfriend does. What are you? Some kind of joke? I don’t think so!! You deserve better.
He doesn’t care that it bothers you if he did he wouldn’t do it, he even lied when he said he wouldn’t sit by her.
Just dump him, seriously. You can do so much better. By the way, don’t play any stupid games with him, just move on.
You should be mad, and you should also dump his sorry butt.
Overreacting
they are just friends after all right? So what if he sat by her , it sounds like you re insecure
He’s too immature to be in a relationship. No guy who truly likes his girlfriend will purposely flaunt another girl in front of his girlfriend to upset her and to get a rise out of her. Want to show him how you feel? Talk to him about it. And if it continues, break up with him. No girl should be with someone who makes her feel bad about herself. He seems like he still has interest in this girl and you need to be someone’s number 1, not 1 of many.
No your not….hes a douche bag he is teasing you…i wouldn’t be surprised if they do stuff together..next time he does it say fine go to her! i can always find someone new and better then you.
I don’t think you’re overreacting, because you need to dump this guy. Obviously, he likes this girl instead of you and if he doesn’t, then he’s a got a sad way of making himself feel better. Like he’s just saying these things to see you get mad and stuff just to know that you care about him. I think you need to have a serious talk with him if this relationship is serious, but if not, you need to leave him, because he will most likely cheat.
no there is something going on clue one the messages on his phone 2 he always talking about her i would fine someone new good luck to you
Well it sounds to me like you’re overreacting a little bit, but maybe he just sits next to her and her friends because he knows that if you saw, you would get mad at him. And maybe he doesn’t feel like arguing with you over such a little thing like that. And trust me, if he liked her he’d be dating her instead of you. So don’t be jealous because hey! YOU’VE got him, not that B*tch
So yeah, just don’t big him about it any more, and he’ll stop annoying you, and when he does bug you about it.. don’t make a big deal about it, or else that causes fights, and fights become worse, and they cause breakups. So hope i helped babe! (:
You should be mad, but NOT because of this girl.
You should be mad at HIM. What kind of uncaring jerk would tease you about going to hang out with someone you hate? He is exerting his power over you, and he likes that more than he likes you. He is selfish … and he gets a sadistic pleasure out of tormenting you.
There is something wrong with you, that you would accept this kind of treatment, and that you would continue to spend time with someone who cares so little for anyone except himself. I woulda been outa there the FIRST time he did that.
Don’t you deserve better?
Also … it doesn’t matter whether or not I think you “should” be mad. Why are you asking ME about YOUR emotions. You cannot “get real” about yourself or about your life until you stand up and say, “I have a RIGHT to feel the way I feel!!!” and until you can also declare “I have a right to EXPECT any boyfriend of mine to respect and care about how I feel, too!”
You need to respect your emotions enough to acknowledge them, to admit that they have their own validity. You will never make your personal life work out well for yourself, never find happiness, if you are not comfortable admitting how you feel.
I put myself in your shoes. and imagined what i wud do if my boyfriend did that. And omg. I would be SOOO MAD.
What is his probem? Is he dating you right now or tell. Tell him its seriously pissing you off, tell him straight up that HE KNOWS you hate her, so joking and around like that isnt funny.
If all he talks about is her, then he should be dating her. I know it hurts, but you honestly deserve better then that idiot.
He should also delete those pictures, THEY ARE BROKEN UP. Why would he have those pictures?
If i were in ur position i would for sure talk to him about it FIRST. Maybe he doesnt know ur really annoyed and hurt by it. But if he still is doing it.
Dump him. You honestly deserve a boyfriend that only thinks and talks to you! He shouldnt be treating u like that.
You for sure ARENT overreacting.
♥Hope i helped.
girl you have a right to be mad he’s a loser and a giant d-bag. >:0 how is he gonna treat his gf like that to make you jealous by hanging around with a skuzz bucket?? tell him to kick the curb and if he’s so excited to see her that he can go be with her because you’re done with his foolishness! >:0 good luck! dumb that jerk or he’s gonna think he can walk all over you in your relationship~
He is being an a–hole. I think you should dump him because he is so mean to you. That is cruel and nothing to joke about, and since he knows how you feel about it, he shouldn’t intentionally be pulling this crap on you. He is being a jerk and needs the crap knocked out of him to wake him up and see that it is not funny to you. I think you have every right to be ticked off. How would he feel if you said stuff about a guy that he didn’t like or felt threatened by? I bet not to great. I think you really need to have him go to counseling with you to work on this problem because he shouldn’t be doing this to someone he loves. If he won’t go, then I say you should find someone who will treat you right because if you stay with him, he will keep saying this stuff so he can keep on bugging you and being a bully. He needs to grow up and be a man, not a child who’s immaturity is hurting someone.
well yes i would be mad because he one lied to you and second hes making you not trust him and trust is the number one thing that should never be broken in a relationship otherwise it wont work out and you will have a lot of fights and if he keeps on reminding you about that girl then hes a total jerk and to be honest it sounds like he doesn’t care about you at all because a real man makes other girls jealous of you not you jealous of other girls keep that in mind.